"...marriages are intensely personal and they are defined not by courts or by voters, but by the people who live inside of them. That's traditional marriage; people making a private, daily. life-long commitment. We can't make gay marriage illegal because gay marriage is already happening, its been happening in fact, for as long as people have been pledging themselves to eachother"

Word to John Green whose super power is to say things in a reasonable way I've been feeling all along.