Ended up having a very busy weekend. Some of it good, some of it bad.

After I posted my rant on Saturday morning I called around to see if any of my friends didn't have plans on Saturday. Berek was free so we decided to hang out. We didn't get together right away, I decided to get some reading done for school first. He ended up coming over early in the evening - about the same time Rob ended up getting back from the baby shower. So, while he was gone, I pretty much spent my time studying. Not fun, but it needed to be done.

We all decided to head out to Brea to check out the mall there. Unfortunately, it closed at 7pm (what the hell kind of mall closes at 7 on a Saturday???) so we only had about 30 minutes in it. After that we looked around for food and stumbled across this adorable little down town area. We ended up getting Mongolian Bar B Q and seeing Lilo and Stitch at one of the movie theatres there. Great movie. It's probably now my favorite Disney movie.

After the movie we headed to a bar that was down the road. It was so neat. Had video games, pool tables, couches, etc. We played some games and then ended up just taking over one of the sections with couches and spending about an hour and a half talking. Rob and I were pretty tipsy by the time we left (we each had 5 drinks) but Berek only drank soda so we were able to get home with a sober driver.

Rob and I came home, cleaned up Amber's pee, and then passed out.

On Sunday Rob and I headed to another Bridal Expo. We still need a DJ, photographer, cake, and someone to play music during the ceremony. So we got a bunch of flyers there and some look very promising. Now I just need the time to call them and make appointments. I also need to make an appointment with someone to make a dress for me. Ugh. Planning a wedding is very stressful.

Amber spent the weekend being very bad and peeing everywhere except the litter box. So Rob and I discussed things and have decided that we have no choice but to get rid of her. I cried a lot, and it sucks, but we've tried everything we can. We're at the point where we have to get rid of her, or find a new apartment - one that will accept a destructive cat. And as far as I've seen, those don't exist. I know things will be better without her. We can't give her a great life when we're always yelling at her for ruining our things, and Sydney has a neurosis because she always beats him up. But that doesn't mean that this isn't very hard for me. I love her and think of her almost as a child. I don't want to lose her, but what can we do?