Well, my two friends, Nick and Sam, have decided to split up. I love them both, I wish them well, but I kind of think it was a toxic relationship. I know a little something about that...when you love each other but can't live together.

(ok, not to make this about me...it's just an observation) The old joke (and a not very funny one at that) has always been who gets the friends in a divorce? I've never, hard to believe considering my age, have been in this situation before. maybe it's luck, if you want to call it that, but i usually don't like both the husband and wife, so it was always easy to choose.

in this case, i do love them both.