I really think that he is bi-polar. Is that the PC term for it? If things don't go exactly perfect all the time then we are going to hell in a handbasket. Lots of stress last night. We are talking, but it doesn't take much for him to react negatively. And he doesn't see what the problem is. He wants everything to be the way it was when we were first married-doing everything together. Ok, guys I just realized how to talk to him. End of rant. It is getting there, but he doesn't want any rain, just rainbows. Makes live interesting shall we say.

Oh, found out the parking ticket that he got-aparently he was suppose to pay it within 30 days and didn't. Now it has multiplied, and he owes more. I was willing to defer the cat for that, but he said that my response to earlier statements that money was a little tighter than he thought showed him that the cat was important to me. He called it "the most important thing in your life right now". No, just a promise that keeps on getting deferred and deferred and deferred. And I know from experience what happens to those promises.

Part of the talk last night let me know that I am in for a rough time. He doesn't want to share me. My seeking others for social time tells him that I don't want to be with him. No matter that it may be going to church or meeting with a friend, this is going to be something that is going to be hard to work through for both of us. I know he knows that that attitude is not good for either of us. But it actually came out in words last night that when I would seek out friends and do things with them, he saw it as I didn't want to be with him-even though he was usually invited and refused to come along. Oh boy, what a mess. I am going to have to handle that with care.