Yup, they are in place, boundaries that is. And he doesn't know how to react. Cuddle/downtime does not go beyond a simple cuddle. No more caving on this end (unless the mood is right of course;). Even though he tried to engage me in a "discussion" about it last night, I didn't get trapped. He, of course, accused me of ignoring him for the TV-yes he didn't talk during the comercials-only when the shows that I wanted to watch were on-even though he normally likes them too! He went into bed at 10, and I followed, but he wasn't 'comfortable' holding me-he told me as we where going to bed. It was a pay back-I know it. My abdomen had been hurting earlier-and he said I had waited until were cuddling to tell him-so I had been leading him on. I didn't buy it. So when we went to bed, I just laid down and said goodnight and went to sleep. calmly. Slept very well. No arguments. No tears. Hmmm-major problem avoided for time being but I expect a blow up this weekend. We have gone all week fine. But that is too good to last.

On a crochet note, I may have a commission to make a Cowl hood for a woman I met on the bus yesterday. I really do need to get business cards made up!!