Yup! I am glad to be at work. Dh is at home. And for once, I did not have the urge to call of sick with him. He took one sentence I said and twisted it. And read more into it than ever possible-that was yesterday. so laundry didn't get done because he said that because I said I couldn't wear socks, I could'nt go to laundry room because my feet would get cold. HUH? But then he didn't do it either. So he's staying home.

We did try to get to Borders on Saturday, we were almost there when he had a reaction to the change in medication (actually doctor had Dh take med all in AM instead of splitting it) and we had to get home asap. NOT FUN!

Doc is referring DH to Diabetes specialist, wants him to exercise, wants him to control diet, etc. Also prescribing him percocet-only wrote script with refills which is not allowed by law so pharmacy won't fill it without calling doc-which they are doing today. If dh will stop drinking sodas it would help him lots. He has stopped drinking Pepsi, but drinks other regular sodas-doesn't pick up that they are the same thing.

He is starting to get lots of feedback on me though. At his luncheon Friday, his coworkers expressed to him on how good I was looking and how much weight I had loss. Even his manager said that I was looking alot better than I had been. I could hear his ambivilance on this issue. I am still loosing some, but alot slower,(thankfully). I am feeling better. He doesn't know what to do about it.

And TT & Rhubarb, yes, I do see how he does try to 'pick' a squabble and make it seem like I am causing it. I am watching my behavior, and letting alot of it just run off my back. Much like I learned to do with my mom once I turned 18 and really learned about our personalities. I don't know if this will last forever cause he makes noises about it getting easier to leave-but he doesn't make the move. Right now, I can deal with it. As long as I vent it out here, and I remember to keep my boundaries strong, and don't take it personally.