Yesterday afternoon I rushed out of the office forgetting papers that I was going to copy. These were papers from the MC relating to homework and about communication. I didn't have a chance to copy them and we have the ability to copy them at home though it really eats up the printer toner. I didn't realize I left them on my desk until I was looking for them late last night. Then I apologized to B telling him I must have left them on my desk. 0n he went about how we couldn't do the homework. I told him we could do part of it-the 5 important things to each of us. And we could discuss them. If push came to shove we could text or call the MC and ask for another copy to be emailed to one of us. One he went, and I ignored him. I said its time for bed, are you coming here for prayer. That shut him up, though he wasn't too happy.

I went to bed, semi closing the door. I wasn't in bed, had looked at this site and put in a comment, when there was a knock on the door. We had talked about putting a heat strip on my neck muscle earlier and he asked about it, but I didn't need it. So it was good night again. He wasn't happy about it.

One thing I need to mention that yesterday at lunch, all I heard about was how uncomfortable he is sleeping in his chair. How his legs/feet hurt cause he can't keep his feet up. Well, he doesn't put the ottoman right up to the chair so there is no real leg support. Any suggestions I made were no good, of course. The it was about him moving his clothes into the closet-not happening.

This morning walking to the bus stop he turned to me and said "What happened last night? We were watching DVDs and then you seemed to go cold." I told him that what happened was his reaction to me forgetting the papers at work. Not me going cold. He seemed to forget all about that part of the night. (all this is already notated for conversation-behavior not conversation-though I did get 'I'm sorry text and e-card)

I must be feeling better and stronger in myself. I saw the whole thing clearly. No upsets, just matter of fact behavior on my end. Detachment. He's not use to that.

Thank you all for helping me during this time. Letting me type it here and getting feedback allows me to remember to put it in the other notebook.

On the bright side. I have had a chance to work on one of my storys at work. I know not the most productive use of my time, but if there's no real work, have to look busy! Anyway, keeps me awake!