Matthew and I had this discussion recently about replying to a blog where he totally disagrees with most of the premises presented... I say, just go for it!

I think that just by disagreeing, it doesn't discount the other person in any way. Just as they have a right to their opinion, so does everyone else in the world. I am often troubled by people in this world who hold strong opinions, but yet, when challenged, shrink to tears, or don't want to defend their opinions (is it fear that they can't, that they won't hold up to scrutiny, or what?)

Anyway, one of the things I enjoy in this world is honest debate. I've talked about discussing subjects at length with my co-worker Derek and although we hold different opinions on a lot of topics, I always find that it challenges me to defend my opinion, which is very good. Do I have the right information? Do I really believe what I'm saying and standing for? etc. etc.

When we disagree, I don't take it as a personal attack, even though Derek sometimes rolls his eyes or tells me that what I just said didn't make any sense. I've learned long ago that that kind of stuff, in a debate, is often used when the other person doesn't have a good comeback. And sometimes, I need to go back and find better information to support my belief. That's always a good thing!!

And sometimes, I can even be persuaded to change my mind or point of view. And how neat is that?