I don't know why, but I've become facinated with the "casual encounters" on craigslist.

Not that I want to participate, but it's fascinating to see the listings, read what people are asking for, and think about the implications of it.

All these people seeking something, something I'm not sure I can even understand, from a "no strings attached" sexual encounter with a complete stranger. I guess there's a whole level of emotional connections and baggage people are trying to avoid, but I'd think that the emotional baggage that makes you want this would be enough already.

I'm not a prude, and certainly don't look down on people's wants and desires.

It just makes me think more about me and my emotions, and makes me kinda sad to think of all those people out there looking for something, a contentment maybe, they probably wont find.

Of course, most of the people on that particular section aren't looking for "contentment", just a casual good feeling. And naturally, mostly men looking for sexual gratification without any emotional involvment at all.

Let's face it, there is a certain appeal of just physical gratification, and the thrill of doing something "naughty" and forbidden feeling. But frankly I'd be paranoid in this day and age between STDs and just plain crazies out there to seriously consider it ever.

Which in a way makes it more fascinating to me to read these listing from people who are going for it.