Wisdom through suffering day by day hour by hour pain drips upon the heart as against our will and even in our own despite comes wisdom from the awful grace of God.
-Aeschylus

I have always said take out of every situation what you can learn from it. The good and the bad. It is harder to learn from the bad, we are often too busy nursing a broken heart or staring at a closed door to realize the wisdom that could come from something happening. It is hard, sometimes. But that is how we grow, how we become stronger. I do not have pretty words or any deep insite. It is too simple for that. Live and learn. But don't forget to enjoy both while you are doing it.

-kln-