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2002-06-04 12:00 PM Hey Jealousy Previous Entry :: Next Entry Mood: Content Contrary to popular belief I don't really get jealous much. For some reason I don't hold onto envy for very long even when I am aware some someone has something that I *would* very much like to have. When comes to someone's attention things start to change a little. And it's not even in the sort of vein of wanting someone's significant other. As far as I can tell that's never happened, but I *do* get jealous when someone is getting the attention I wish I had. This happens almost exclusively with friends I'm not romantically interested in. A friend will innocently spend an evening talking to someone who isn't me and I'll suddenly feel all burned up over it. It doesn't make it any damned sense at all. Yet I've ended friendships over it. That's jealousy for you.
I don't really get being jealous of someone's SO. Same with getting jealous over a thing like a car or a job, or even the fact that someone is in a relationship and you're not. But clearly it happens and when it does the emotions are raw and mighty. And rather scary. One of the best chronicles of this is on Ani di Franco's Dilate. Yeah, I'm being obvious. Bite me. Oddly, none of the songs I know well about this subject are addressed to the person they're jealous of. "Untouchable Face" is addressed to the person the singer wishes to be with, rather than that person's "better half." Untouchable Face Ani di Franco think i'm going for a walk now i fell a little unsteady don't want nobody to follow me 'cept maybe you i could make you happy, y'know if you weren't already i could do a lot of things and i do tell you the truth i prefer the worst of you too bad you had to have a better half she's not really my type but i think you two are forever and i hate to say it but you're perfect together so fuck you and your untouchable face and fuck you for existing in the first place who am i that i should be vying for your touch bet you can't even tell me that much two-thirty in the morning and my gas tank will be empty soon neon sign on the horizon rubbing elbows with the moon a safe haven of sleepless where the deep fryer's always on and the radio is counting down the top twenty country songs and out on the porch the fly strip is waving like a flag in the wind y'know, i don't look forward to seeing you again you'll look like a photograph of yourself taken from far far away and i won't know waht to do and i won't know waht to say except fuck you and your untouchable face and fuck you for existing in the first place who am i that i should be vying for your touch who am i bet you can't even tell me that much I see you and i'm so perplexed what was i thinking what will i think of next where can i hide in the backroom there's a lamp that hangs over the pool table and when the fan is on it swings gently side to side there's a changing constellation of balls as we are playing i see orion and say nothing the only thing i can think of saying is fuck you and your untouchable face and fuck you for existing in the first place who am i that i should be vying for your touch who am i bet you can't even tell me that much To me it cuts deep because it's so simple and unwavering. It's the sort of thing I don't have cure for or even a good way of assuaging the symptoms. When I come upon someone that deeply inside themselves all I can do is watch and wait warily as they ride it out. Then there is the attention vying with a thing. This I identify with, sadly, all too well. M Bike PJ Harvey His M-Bike's clean He polish that thing He looks her over More than me But I won't let it Get to me Yeah he can play with His machine Night and day rain or shine he looks at her shape and not at mine But I'm not complaining No I think it's neat Yeah he can play with His machine But all he's speaking And all he sees Is just his motor- Bike not me! No I won't let it Get to me Can't stop thinking of His goddamned machine ~MOTOR~ I could take lady Coast her out west Ride his motor Over the edge Yeah I could break her Break her, break me You can think what you like But get rid of that Goddamned machine Yeah I could break her Break her, break me You can think what you like But I fucking hate His motor-bike Okey. Jealousy is damned powerful emotion. You can tell by all the "fucks" in these songs. sheesh people. I once read something from Maya Angelou that likened jealousy to salt. A little bit makes everything much more savory. A lot will kill a person. Obvious Answers: Tori Amos: Past the Mission TMBG: Santa's Beard Previous Entry :: Next Entry Back to Top |
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