Not a new job. not a solution to all the world's problems (or mine for that matter). But to how my book has to work out. It's been perculating in the back of my mind. A this morning as I was walking down the long corridor to my office my brain did one of those fantastic leaps of 'she has to visit this government office', they realize this, she does that......bang-they do this, they catch some of the bad guys this way, hmmm now who do I talk to about.... There are some facts I need to find out about and since I don't know anything about a few things, I may be visiting another government office in my free time. I can flesh out those details later, but the idea of how to get to that point had stumped me.

We heard from DS last night. He's getting his act together and next pay day taking the child care classes he needs so that he gets the 'bench warrant' lifted so he can start seeing his kids on a regular basis. That is the excuse his ex is using to withhold visits. They will need to go back to court I think, He is a good daddy-she overreacted to something and he got the brunt end-although I did tell him that he was wrong with what he did. No he didn't hit child or mother, he held child up at his level instead of kneeling down. Child can be extremely aggravating and mother exhasturbated (sp?) situation. Son got lecture over phone and then when saw him last April got it again in person from MOM in no uncertain terms (and his sister and his father.) But all parents can use parenting help.