Went to the doc's yesterday. Found out a few things-one my headaches that I said were linked to the air pressure and triggered migraines she confirmed with the statement(after she asked how many have you been having and I answered almost non stop for 2 weeks) "I would have been surprised if you haven't been having any-between the air pressure and the pollen." You could have knocked me over with a feather. Literally. She is the first doctor that didn't wave off my suggestion that my migraines were partially weather related. I also told her about my neck position at work-she said it could be triggering part of it-she went to touch my should/neck muscles and then said "I am writing you a scrip for Physical Therapy. That should help." I told her I need to build up my sick leave before I do that that and she understood, and she changed my preventative to 4 tablet at night.

Then I came in today to find out that I need to reschedule the counselors appointment-she cancelled. That was after some passive agressive behavior from DH. Because it was my birthday he decided that I wasn't to do anything-no dished, laundry, etc. OK, but then he couldn't decide if he should go to the store or make supper first. He had to pick up scripts, but it was close to supper. I made a comment and immediatly got-'OH, I'll make supper first cause you'r hungry." When I tried to tell him that I could wait, it wasn't good enough. Then he banged his hand getting the pan out or something and apparently I didn't jump up fast enough to see what was wrong. When I questioned it, and he said he was ok, he was holding a tissue in his hand like he was cut and I questioned it again-then I wasn't "believing him". Needless to say it wasn't a good evening. I ended up just sitting and keeping my mouth shut because when I said something it was twisted or I heard "you can tell the counselor tomorrow." So, I know most of the behavior was related to the visit that was to happen today. He's nervous about it. I am not backing down, and if he doesn't want to continue it, I am even beyond the 4 I am allowed by work. It will cost $90/visit-if my insurance doesn't cover. Not too bad. But I am hoping he will agree to it for his portion, or that we can work something out. I don't know. Maybe this is something I should have done years ago for myself.