They say that growth is painful. Yup, it sure is. We have a homework asignment(sp?). we have to come up with a plan to make sure both of are needs are met-my need for alone time as well as his need, and the need for couple time. It was brought to our attention that we don't really do anything as a couple-besides going to the movies and out to eat that is. We use to play scrabble, backgammon and a couple of other games, but those stopped years ago. I don't like role playing games-I have tried, but they don't move fast enough and I could never get behind the strategies of chess. (too much thinking I think). A few other things came out-some hubby & I discussed, but he didn't know how much they had been affecting me and they came out again. He was hurt, but he pointed out things that I didn't realize had happened. But they did, now we work from there. Lots of ideas on getting a plan together.

No crocheting or writing. Not sure how all that is going to work together, but I will be working on it together. I did read something yesterday that I am going to keep in mind.

"What have you done today toward your dream?"

First, what is my dream? Is is truly to write a book? I don't know. The overwhelming push isn't toward writing. If it was, I wouldn't be typing here, since time is limited. MY overwhelming push is toward my crochet. My dream is to have a business where I make items-each one designed to fit that one customer to a t. I have done it before and had a blast. And finished a complete sweater in less than 3weeks while working full time. Had a blast. (the story will get written, but not all at once. It is almost done.)