You all can skip if you want-but I have to vent-am I the problem-do I have BPD? I think DH found the prints I made for the counselor and read them. He has read paper journals before-that is why I stopped keeping them. He knows I have a journal. He was "cleaning" my area of the couch and came across a couple of folders-he said he told me cause there were my referrals to sleep study and scan for migraine, but he never told me where he found them. I found them today. But I found the folders and reread some it. And low and behold, some of the quotes he has been throwing at me-were direct quotes from the journal. I know cause we had another blowout today-but something he said made me think that I may have a problem too. I don't know anymore. I love him, but am so tired of always being wrong or not doing something exactly right; or not answering him when he expects an answer and I thought it was a statement and not a question-it was a statement. Yes Teri, I have gone to the site, but can't get to all of the items at work, and when I'm home he is. Right now he went to bed early- sent me an email saying that he hopes I have sweet dreams, he knows he will have nightmares-I am going to the site T recommended tognight-I responded telling him to have sweet dreams and that I am taking alone time now so tomorrow will be great.