Or in other words, don't go out for Birthday meal and both get food poisoning again! We were both out of commission yesterday! Today, I am better, but not by much. Enough to come into work though. Stomach still hurts. 1 bathroom and 2 sick people is not a fun time.

Otherwise, all is really peaceful. We have managed to talk things out as they come up. When he reacts weird I call him on it, boundaries firm.

And a new thing added to the mix at HIS request, every night we read scriptures starting at 9 till about 9:30. Then bed. Seems to be helping. We read out loud-taking turns. We had talked about doing this but never implemented it. I received a birthday call on Saturday from a friend at church and it triggered a whole conversation. For once he was honest right up front. It helped that we were outside the apartment when the call came and we continued talking outside. It is easier to remain calm outside-in the sunshine! Even though he was on his canes, he had to get out of the apartment for a little bit and we used the bus system to limit walking quite a bit.

He is trying and is pointing out things sooner-instead of letting it slide too-so am I. It is a surprise when both of us see the same thing.

Now, if we can find out where the cat is going poop we will be happy-its not in the litter box!