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It is 32 years this evening that we were married. I have changed and in many ways grown. I do not think that he has. And that is at the root of many of our problems. He thinks he has, but it is not there. He loves me the way he can. I love him. But is it enough to continue? I don't know.

Last night was another argument because I needed to nap after work. I was too tired. On the way home I asked him to nap with me, but because I asked him to wake me in a half hour, he took it that I didn't want him to nap with me. He had mentioned getting up-but he forgot that.

And this thing with my 'day sleeps' is because I am a hypochondriac. The doc told me about it and now I have the symptoms. Never mind that I had the symptoms before I went to her-bad enough that I thought I was showing Alzhiemers!

He is off work today. I got an angry phone call because I didn't call him at 6:30. I only call him that early when he works-to make sure he is awake.

So, it is going to be a real good aniversary!!

And now it is "Why can't we take just one day at a time?" My answer was "That sounds GREAT!" And so it goes on! I have over $100 saved. I want to buy him a birthday gift, but then I don't. I can't. He doesn't know how I scrimp that money up. I don't buy water. I don't have a separate account-and separating our funds out is not going to happen, not the way bill paying happens! I am feeling guilty over scrimping the money. I did get another $20 from him last night. He's making noises about not having any money for the rest of the pay period. Don't know why-no unusual bills came in.

We did find out that his name & ssn was used by someone in MA. We knew someone had same last name in MA-apparently that person was using his name(same big &large store had different address for DH! Now there's a flag up! Told DH he needs to alert his manager too.

DH was at DMV getting liscense and handicap tag renewed-and SSA had his name/SSN flagged there too. So Credit bureaus probably have it flagged. That explains why new credit card was issued in Sept too! Account was comprimised was the only thing the bank would say.

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Previous Entry :: Next Entry Read/Post Comments (5) Share on Facebook		2011-09-07 8:03 AM 32 years It is 32 years this evening that we were married. I have changed and in many ways grown. I do not think that he has. And that is at the root of many of our problems. He thinks he has, but it is not there. He loves me the way he can. I love him. But is it enough to continue? I don't know. Last night was another argument because I needed to nap after work. I was too tired. On the way home I asked him to nap with me, but because I asked him to wake me in a half hour, he took it that I didn't want him to nap with me. He had mentioned getting up-but he forgot that. And this thing with my 'day sleeps' is because I am a hypochondriac. The doc told me about it and now I have the symptoms. Never mind that I had the symptoms before I went to her-bad enough that I thought I was showing Alzhiemers! He is off work today. I got an angry phone call because I didn't call him at 6:30. I only call him that early when he works-to make sure he is awake. So, it is going to be a real good aniversary!! And now it is "Why can't we take just one day at a time?" My answer was "That sounds GREAT!" And so it goes on! I have over $100 saved. I want to buy him a birthday gift, but then I don't. I can't. He doesn't know how I scrimp that money up. I don't buy water. I don't have a separate account-and separating our funds out is not going to happen, not the way bill paying happens! I am feeling guilty over scrimping the money. I did get another $20 from him last night. He's making noises about not having any money for the rest of the pay period. Don't know why-no unusual bills came in. We did find out that his name & ssn was used by someone in MA. We knew someone had same last name in MA-apparently that person was using his name(same big &large store had different address for DH! Now there's a flag up! Told DH he needs to alert his manager too. DH was at DMV getting liscense and handicap tag renewed-and SSA had his name/SSN flagged there too. So Credit bureaus probably have it flagged. That explains why new credit card was issued in Sept too! Account was comprimised was the only thing the bank would say. Read/Post Comments (5) Previous Entry :: Next Entry Back to Top