We are not sharing a bedroom. The comment I made was that I could see the suggestion being made to share a bedroom by the church leader.

On the planned vacation in August, we will share a room to keep costs down-since we will have to bring cat. Separate beds. I would not be able to go to Il otherwise. And I need to get things that are important to ME. B will be paying for the room, though I expect to share other costs, otherwise it will be unaffordable. And timing is so that I can save up to afford to move.. It is my plan.

Marriage counseling is not backing up. I don't expect it to work because of the amount of work B has to do. I am angry at him. Today walking in to my office I was having an imaginary conversation with a T and pointed out why I would not want to share bed. And pure anger came out. So backsliding isn't there. I am insuring that when I walk away I have done the last thing that I could do. I have stated to B that this is the last attempt. He knows that I don't expect it to work.

My plans have not changed. I cannot move out fast-finances to unwind my folks. So things are working well for me. Believe me, 5 months will have both credit cards paid off too! Hurrah!! Thats $168 more in my pocket each month to pay for groceries and rent!