I got this from B: it is a email trail in reverse order.

For listening, but not understanding.

For ever making you feeling I was wanting you to change because I said you needed to.

For not being there when you needed me the most - to just listen and not say a word.

For not being the friend and husband I needed to be for you.

For just not knowing!


Work email address
from:me

What are you apologizing for?


Work email address
From B

Honey,

I am so sorry. Will you ever forgive me?

Your Green Eyed Froggy Dunce



Ok, now is this a gaslight issue? Or is it because he is just scared because MC is not working the way he was hoping it was going to- me falling right back in line? I am not jumping right in to make it all right for HIM. Because I am trying to make it right for me too, finally.

Last night he asked me if I need to find a sex partner outside the marriage. Oh, boy, did I explode! Told him that right now that part of things didn't even come into play for me and how dare he degrade me in that manner!! Now that I have had time to think of it, he was probably trying to get permission for himself. Opinions? Not that I would go that way either!

Oh, boy, this is going to be a real fun ride!!!