I guess I have come to expect the attitude and I don't like it. I am working at not having that attitude myself, so when B starts it up, I don't want to hear it. Life is what it is. Your arm and back muscles are sore because you wanted to watch TV instead of going to the gym and working out. Laundry once a week and carrying groceries is not the same as weight lifting to train muscles. His back and arms still hurt, mine do not-and I did move stuff too. I do have a small problem with my right hip/back, but I think that I lifted something wrong and twisted-my bad. So I take care, but I try to move more during the day. He isn't. He sits in his wheelchair and slouches instead of lifting his shoulders up and back to stretch out the muscles. But I don't know anything.

Just "Poor Me" I am hurting so bad, and I have to do all this stuff for you. (Uh, I didn't ask you to you volunteered to get lunch together.)

Even the cat looked at him funny this morning, As if to say, "What's up with you, buddy? Snap out of it!"

Of course, I will not tell him any of this. I do not want to start a war. I will give him time to settle down. And I will work on the apartment and settle things down.

Just don't start trying to make me feel sorry for you. It ain't gonna work. Cause, I am having too much fun in this little apartment WITHOUT TV OR COMPUTER!!!!