I'm trying really, really hard not to be judgmental about how people live their lives, but I must confess that I'm finding it near impossible to follow through. I have a friend who recently told me that one night while drunk, she made out with a guy outside a bar. This guy lives with his girlfriend and my friend is fully aware of that, but doesn't seem too bothered by it. Granted, it's only kissing, but to me that's cheating. If I found out my boyfriend kissed another girl, I don't care how drunk either party was, his ass would be out on the curb. She's also told me that she's slept with her manager at work and with another guy who is in a quasi-relationship with a friend of hers. It's her sex life and she can do what she wants, but when she tells me these things, I find it really hard to remain impartial. The fact that she's so unconcerned about other people's relationships and that she's a willing participant in these shady rendezvous with other guys makes me somewhat angry. I'm in a relationship, and I wouldn't want someone like her waltzing in between the two of us without any regard for me. Other than our differing sex lives, we get along great. We have a lot in common and are able to forge interesting conversations. I know it's not my place to judge her, but when she asks if I think she's slutty for doing some of the things she's done, I really have to try to keep a straight face when I tell her no. So can I still consider her a friend all the while thinking she's kind of trashy? It's not like her sex life directly affects me, unless of course, she got with my boyfriend, but I really can't see that happening...