Some things have been going on as of late. Old demons rearing their ugly heads, a journal posting which got people in an uproar, etc. I didn't want to make any posting regarding this until I thought matters were settled one way or another. The phone call that I mentioned in yesterday's entry pretty much settled the situation and so now I feel free to post about it. However, no real names will be used.

This all started about six months ago. I'm not going into details save to say that there was some bad blood between three of my friends. It ended with ties being severed between some of them. For anon's sake we will call these three Tigersquash, Pumpkin, and Cat. The whole drama that took place a while back ended up in Tigersquash and Pumpkin cutting off all contact with Cat. I was friends with all of them and the problem didn't directly involve me so I tried my best to stay out of it. I thought it worked until recently.

This whole mess came up again last week when a rather venomous posting came up on Cat's journal. This posting not only brought up the venom against Tigersquash and Pumpkin for their role in pissing off Cat, but it also commented that *I* was a horrible person and not Cat's friend because I stayed out of the situation and never sat down with Cat to hear her side of the story. Granted, I probably should have, but I've seen relationships between friends destruct in the past and I really wanted to stay out of this whole mess. The journal posting was signed by another person.

Tigersquash and Pumpkin were pissed off at the posting, and they had every right to be. I was more hurt than pissed and wanted to know what was going on. As far as I knew, Cat and I were still friends. I'm not the type of person to hide from a problem. I confront things head on and that's exactly what I did. I sent Cat a letter asking her what was going on. If we weren't friends anymore I wanted to hear it from her and not from a friend of hers that was posting crap on her journal. Cat and I had a long phone conversation yesterday.

Apparently, Cat had no idea of the posting. She's very busy with other things in her life right now and hasn't even been online for a few months. She sounded confused by my letter at first, and then was furious when she realized what her friend has posted. She had me load up her journal and read the entry to her. She was not a happy girl. Because she currently doesn't have internet access she had me take down the posting and change her password to something that her friend didn't know. She told me to apologize for the posting to Tigersquash and Pumpkin, and when I see them next I will.

We also had a long conversation. Apparently she was hurt by the fact that I stayed out of the whole mess and she expressed this to her friends. One of her friends over reacted and wanted to go off on me and the others, but had no outlet to do so. When she gave him her journal password for other purposes he took it upon himself to post his feelings there. Cat agreed that it was inappropriate and made several references to castrating her friend. Cat and I talked things over and seem to be on okay ground as of now. I'll be meeting with her eventually and we'll see how that goes. I'm just glad the posting is down. It seems as if Cat didn't want this problem to rear up again either. Hence why the posting is now gone.

Last night Cat also called me and left a message on my machine. Apparently the guy who posted on her journal wants to contact me and apologize for the posting. I'll probably have her give him my e-mail addy since that's really the best way to get in contact with me these days.

Well, those are the basics of what went on with the situation. Further details will be given to Tigersquash and Pumpkin when I next see them. If you know about this situation and want to leave a comment, PLEASE do not use real names. Use the ones I am using. If you MUST use real names then contact me about this using e-mail or the phone. Anyone who posts real names on here is going to be in a world of trouble with me.

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