I just googled 'divorce in Dc' and started reading about divorce and abuse questions both- the 'are you an abuser?' (the answer is no to all questions) and the 'are you abused?'. Ah, guess what, answered too many yes. Guess you all knew that didn't you. You have been telling me that. They actually covered non-physical abuse in detail and separately. And how our emotions are played. For awhile reading, I thought that I may be Passive Aggressive-then realized something-yes I may use that approach, but it is defensive strategy. A protection that I developed. I don't use it at work normally, especially since I have a new boss.

One thing that is bothering me now, is that my heart has been beating faster than normal and 'chest pains' have shown up. I believe that I am feeling the stress of the situation... so I will need to go to phase 2. The house in IL will need to go to the bank or be sold. We can't keep it. Flippers may want it, though it needs work.

On a sad note, SIL grandmother has breast cancer, news is that they found it early, small spot. That explains the FB update I got from DDs page showing a Pink ribbon on a black background. Another Prawyer Shawl to do. I wonder what her favorite color is.

Thank you for your help everyone.

Oh, B has found a card site that our phone apps had for free. Anyone care to guess how many cards I have received since Tuesday?